As the moderator - I'm not really interested in having this tribe turn into a personals section, so I deleted your original post.

There is little life in here because many people only check tribes that are active, have multiple posts per day, lots of new threads and members, etc. Thats not really the case here, its more of a chill tribe. If you'd like to see the tribe become more active, here are some suggestions: invite your friends, start a discussion thread, look through the old threads and make a comment on one that interests you (this will raise the topic to the top and newer members of the tribe may respond who were not here when the topic was originally raised)

As far as getting your needs met - I would suggest a personals site or craigslist if you want to go the online route.

Thanks!