Hey!
I am in a fairly new relationship, with someone with whom I share a great deal of passion. I have always fantasized about sexual biting, and any erotic dreams I have ever had have included it. I am not at all interested in breaking skin or drawing blood, but biting... oh yes.
My new partner is also very into biting and is very good at it... while I have a few bruises now and then (and I do bruise easily), he rarely leaves marks that last more than a few hours... it drives me WILD.
And he is more than willing to help me learn to bite safely, though he does enjoy giving the pleasure so much I often to not get a chance to practice... but I would like some advice or thoughts from the men about what are really good places to bite? LIke that I could take him over the edge with as he does with me? I would like to be able to pleasantly surprise him with a little foreknowledge....
thanks
Ann
I am in a fairly new relationship, with someone with whom I share a great deal of passion. I have always fantasized about sexual biting, and any erotic dreams I have ever had have included it. I am not at all interested in breaking skin or drawing blood, but biting... oh yes.
My new partner is also very into biting and is very good at it... while I have a few bruises now and then (and I do bruise easily), he rarely leaves marks that last more than a few hours... it drives me WILD.
And he is more than willing to help me learn to bite safely, though he does enjoy giving the pleasure so much I often to not get a chance to practice... but I would like some advice or thoughts from the men about what are really good places to bite? LIke that I could take him over the edge with as he does with me? I would like to be able to pleasantly surprise him with a little foreknowledge....
thanks
Ann
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Re: In need of some advice on well placed bites....
Mon, January 7, 2008 - 5:49 AMHey Ann,
As you requested there are some great spots to be bitten on a man. Lets see there is the ribs on the sides of his body. The stomach area and waist. I know those drive me nuts when I want to be bitten. If you go down on him for some oral take a second and bite the tip of his cock. There is also the sides on the cock. What I truely enjoy is while I am being masturbated that my s/o bites the pelvic bone area near my cock and also the balls bitten lightly feels great. Try to explore a little on him when you try things out, watch his reactions. When he is enjoying it he will either submit to your bitting him or he will hold you there till he has had enough. Just play with different places and strengths while bitting he will let you know exactly what he wants and enjoys. Have fun bitting and be bitten is so enjoyable
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Fri, January 11, 2008 - 5:39 PMSome of the spots Xavior mentions may be ticklish for some men. Some will enjoy that and some won't. Also - some men will FREAK OUT if you bite their cock and they were not expecting it and do not think it feels good. It is always good to ask. Being open and communicative is always sexy and the fact that you are asking him what turns him on and how you can better please him, well, everyone wants to be asked! That way you can make sure he is expecting it and also that it is something he will enjoy. He may not know what he will enjoy, in which case you can explore together - which is fun too! -
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Fri, January 18, 2008 - 8:18 AMyou betcha.... there is NOTHING like a well placed (did I say hard) bite just below my cockhead...... an older (very sweet ) gal introduced me to the joys of biting in college.....thirty years later I still remember the shock and thrill when she sunk her teeth into me.... not a chomp but a pretty fast deliberate bite...I swear I thought my cock would come off.....the expression on her face as she looked up at me without letting up on the pressure was at once frightening and also thrilling.
When I had calmed down she bit even harder...she told me later she liked to feel the flesh part so she could feel her teeth comng together.....me too! The bruise lasted two weeks....reminding me everytime i moved.....Zowie !
After all these years ....I still feel her .....wonderfull, just wonderfull
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Re: In need of some advice on well placed bites....
Tue, January 15, 2008 - 6:54 PMHello,
I just joined this tribe and had to chime in right away.................
Ann,
Very good question. I first want to respond and say anytime the head of my cock has been bitten, I was not happy about it.
GoodLittle Naughty had some very good advice.
With that said, an area one person finds to be erotic is ticklish or worse to another. However, most people, male and female alike have some similarities in regard to eroginous zones. Simliar areas are, the most obvious, the neck just behind the ear, the side of the pecks (left anf right on the chest under the arm), inside of the elbow and one of my personal fav's besides the neck, behind the knee. You can also lay him on his stomach, start at his neck and slowly work your way down his back, over his ass and down the back of the legs.
Ad custom made fangs to your biting and increase not only the sensation but the sensuality as more people are turned ON by Vampires then not. The mystic of a Vampire is just oh so sexy! Biting technique is also very important. If someone is being bitten so hard that bruises are appearing (there is a vatamin formula for that) or their is fear that their skin will be broken and they will bleed, then they are being bitten too hard and most likely incorrectly. Firm pressure with a wide mouth is more pleasurable then a small bite with almost any amount of pressure.
I teach a workshop on biting called.....Kiss of the Vampire: the art of erotic biting. I will either contact August of the Citadel and get it on the calendar ASAP (it could be months) or just hold such a class here in my home. A poll could be taken by those on the list. Those interested could get back to me and I will see if my place is big enough or if I should look into a hall in my neighborhood. ;)
Be well all. Happy Biting.
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Fri, January 18, 2008 - 3:33 PMYes, Yes. Classes are always fun - and a good excuse to be bitten! The Citadel is a great space, but as I'm north of you, Sonoma County would be even better.
And yes Ann, it's really not about how hard, but how erotic you can bite him. Biting, nipping, chewing, slobbering and sucking all work in different areas.
Sign me up!
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Mon, February 18, 2008 - 2:14 PMI have taken Dmitri's class. He is the only "professional biter" that I have ever heard of ;-). If you are in SF and have the chance to take his class I *highly* recommend it!
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Thu, January 24, 2008 - 8:10 PMI'm one of those who is ticklish on the sides. For me, the chest works great. I love being bitten between shoulder and nipple, especially during intercourse. The top of the shoulder and back also work well for me. -
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Wed, January 30, 2008 - 9:49 PMhey thanks all of you... I really appreciate the advice. Haven't been on in a while and came back on to discover all sorts of advice! I have since spoken with my new mate and he is very happy to teach me both technique and his favourite spots, but was also touched (and I think a little turned on) to know I had been attempting to find out some info on my own. I am looking forward to our next lesson...
again, thanks
Ann
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Thu, February 7, 2008 - 7:27 PMi had a beau that just LOVED to have cock gnawed on...
heavy on the molars!
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Wed, February 13, 2008 - 12:42 PMI love biting, and being bitten. I find that different kinds of bites work depending on the body part, and your desired effect. I agree with all the previous feedback in the thread and wanted to ad a few more hot spots.
I like to do a "half bite" on my lovers lower lip, pulling it between my upper teeth and toungue. I also like to nibble on the pads of a mans fingers, but also on a womans toes. I like to nibble around the hips, with some lovers being able to take a stronger bite. It also depends on how aroused the recipient is the pleasure/pain edge is fascinating.
My favorite is having the edges of my heets, arches, and ball of my feet bitten. There are more nerve endings in the hands and feet than just about anywhere on the body and foot flesh is tough, so it takes a good bit off pressure to cause anything but pleasure. Too light a chomp might tickle, but everyone's different and tickling can be a divine for of torture :-).
Finally I enjoy having the back of my neck nibbled on, add a twist by lifting and gently pulling my long hair aside, the brush of his whiskers on my upper back as he nears my neck and I am ready to boil, YUM!
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Re: In need of some advice on well placed bites....
Mon, February 18, 2008 - 2:18 PMMaDom - reading your post actually gave me shivers! Great description of some lovely places to bite. *shiver* -
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Re: In need of some advice on well placed bites....
Tue, March 18, 2008 - 2:21 AMFirst time poster to this group. But a long time biter. ;-)
I like to mark my path with bites. Starting with kisses, then a bite on the lower lip. Not too hard. Or maybe so.
Then a whisper in her ear, a breath, then a earlobe bite. Opening my mouth fully, I like to see how much of her neck I can get between my teeth, Vampire style. That muscle, the sternocleidomastoid muscle, fits so nicely for biting.
Then, just below the clavicle, is a sensitive area above her breast. Ripe for the nibbling.
But then I have a weird thing I just like doing because it feels weird. I like sucking her bicep into my mouth, and biting it. Same with her triceps and forearm.
No belly is safe either. Particularly between the hip bones and the belly button. Then Inner thighs, ass, quads, Yoni.
Yum!
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